Mary dear and her thousand desires

goddesscynthia:

Yoni is a Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as “Sacred Temple.” Its meaning and use is an alternate perspective from the western view of the female genitals. 

In tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. 
The purpose of the Yoni Massage is to create a space for the woman to relax, and enter a state of high arousal and experience much pleasure from her Yoni. I experience the joy of being of service and witnessing a special moment. 

The goal is simply to pleasure and massage the Yoni/vagina. When orgasm occurs it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. 

You lie on your back with pillows under your head so you can look down at your genitals and up at me. A pillow, covered with a towel, is placed under your hips. Your legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and your genitals clearly exposed for the massage. I sit cross-legged between your legs. This position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body. Before contacting the body, we begin with deep, relaxed breathing. You should remember to keep breathing deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. 

I gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to get you to relax and to prepare for touching the Yoni. I pour a small quantity of oil on the mound of the Yoni. Just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. 
I begin gently massaging the mound and outer lips of the Yoni. I spend some time here and do not rush. I gently squeeze the outer lip between the thumb and index finger, and slide up and down the entire length of each lip. I do the same thing to the inner lips of the Yoni/vagina. 

You can massage your own breasts or just relax and continue breathing deeply. It is helpful for us to look into each other’s eyes as much as possible. You can tell me if the pressure, speed, depth, etc., needs to be increased or decreased. We should limit our speaking and focus on the pleasurable sensations. (It is my experience that too much talking gets one out of their feelings and diminishes the effects.) 

I gently stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. I gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. You will undoubtedly become very aroused but I will continue to encourage you to just relax and breathe. 

Leaning forward I burrow my head between your thighs. Licking all around the mound and outer lips of the Yoni, using the whole flat side of my tongue (like licking an ice- cream). My mouth and tongue penetrate the inner walls lapping towards the clitoris. Where, upon arrival at this “Sacred Temple”, I worship and pay homage as I stimulate, suck, blow, nibble and drink from its fountain. 

Slowly and with great care, I insert the middle finger of my right hand into the Yoni (there is a reason for using the right hand as opposed to the left. It has to do with polarity in Tantra). I very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni/vagina with this finger. Taking my time, being gentle, and feel up, down and sideways. I vary the depth, speed and pressure. Remember, this is a massage and I am nurturing and relaxing the Yoni. 

With my palm facing up, and the middle finger inside the Yoni, I move the middle finger in a “come here” gesture or crook back towards the palm. I will contact a spongy area of tissue just under the pubic bone, behind the clitoris. This is the G-spot or in Tantra, the sacred spot. You may feel as if you have to urinate or it may be painful or pleasurable. Again I vary the pressure, speed and pattern of movement. I move side to side, back and forth, and in circles with my middle finger. I can also insert the finger that’s between the middle finger and pinky. Most women will enjoy the increased stimulation from two fingers. I will use the thumb of the right hand to stimulate the clitoris as well. 

An option to try is to insert the pinky of the right hand into the anus. (In Tantra, it is said that when your pinky is in her anus, the next finger and middle finger in her Yoni/vagina, and your thumb on her clitoris, “You are holding one of the mysteries of the universe in your hand.”) 

So, what is my left hand doing all this time? I can use it to massage the breasts, abdomen, or clitoris. The dual stimulation of right and left hands will provide much pleasure for the woman. I continue massaging, trying different speeds, pressures and motions. We keep breathing and looking into each other’s eyes. When you are ready to orgasm, keep breathing deeply, I will continue massaging. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called “riding the wave.” Many women can learn how to be multi-orgasmic with the Yoni Massage and a very patient partner. 

I will keep massaging until you tell me to stop. Very slowly, gently, and with respect, I will remove my hands. Allowing you to just lay there and enjoy the afterglow of the Yoni massage. Through the Yoni Massage your sex life will be greatly enriched and you will learn a great deal about feminine sexuality.

That’s love right there. <3